Mab was born in 1954 in South Africa, and grew up in Alexandra, a township within Johannesburg. His early years were marked by the harsh realities of apartheid, a segregated system under which black South Africans were confined to areas like Alexandra, which had no running water, electricity, or proper sanitation facilities, so toilets were often outdoors. In stark contrast, the white population lived in affluent neighbourhoods, with all the amenities that came with privilege, and in many cases directly next-door to Alexandra.
Mab’s childhood was defined by this stark division, but it also ignited a sense of justice within him. As a young man he became politically aware, studying politics with a focus on the struggle against apartheid. His views made him a target of the government. At one point, he was arrested for expressing dissenting political views, which labelled him a left-wing radical and communist in the eyes of the authorities. But in a testament to the power of community, Mab’s neighbours and friends rallied around him to ensure he didn’t end up in prison, providing him with the strength to continue speaking out against injustice.
At the age of 24, Mab was granted a scholarship to study in Geneva, marking the beginning of a life that would take him far from South Africa. From there, he earned further scholarships to study in the UK, attending the University of Manchester, Birmingham University, and Stafford University. His academic pursuits, particularly in communications, laid the groundwork for a life in education, but his journey was far from ordinary. Mab’s first job was as a personal assistant to Bishop Isaac Mbekwena, who was the head of the African Methodist Episcopal Church, the head of the church. This position, though humble, taught him valuable lessons about leadership and service, which would shape his future.
After completing his studies, Mab tried to settle in London, and explored other areas like Wales, before ultimately moving to Northampton when his wife received a job offer from Northampton College. There, Mab found his calling as a teacher, specializing in newspaper recording and communications. His passion for education and empowering others was clear, and he spent his career teaching, guiding, and mentoring students in the field of communication.
Mab and his wife built a family in Northampton, where they raised their son, who eventually attended Northampton School for Boys, continuing the legacy of education in the Tema family. Even as a parent, Mab emphasized the importance of knowledge, often sharing his belief that “education is a liberator” and “education, education, education,” encouraging the younger generation to embrace learning as a means to advance in life.
Now in his 70’s and retired, Mab lives a peaceful life. Though he no longer frequents the pub, he still enjoys the simple pleasure of buying his own drinks from the shop, preferring the tranquillity of his own company. One of his favourite pastimes is braai—a traditional South
African BBQ which he says brings him comfort and a taste of home. He often falls asleep listening to radio, particularly Radio 4, which keeps him connected to the world. In his free time, Mab still proofreads for post-graduate students, a task that keeps his mind sharp and his sense of purpose intact.
Mab’s commitment to making a difference never eased. He’s involved with four charities, particularly The McCarthy-Dixon Foundation, where he serves as a board member, advocating for underprivileged communities. He remains an active voice for those who are often ignored by society, drawing from his own experience of growing up in a marginalized community under apartheid.
Another cause close to Mab’s heart is child development psychology. He is a critic of the growing reliance on technology and screens in children’s lives, which he believes is detrimental to their mental and social development. He often warns younger generations, particularly those growing up as “iPad kids,” to strike a balance between technology and real-world interaction.
Though Mab has not returned to South Africa in nearly three decades, his connection to his homeland remains strong, and his family still resides there. He understands the importance of having a support network, something that’s guided him throughout his life, and he places great value on his friendships in Northampton.
In addition to his charitable work, Mab still enjoys watching rugby, cheering on the Northampton Saints when he can, and reminiscing about his past adventures. He fondly recalls the times when his company invited him to F1 races, where he had the rare privilege of meeting drivers and even stepping into the garages.
Reflecting on his life, Mab often says he is “proud of everything he’s done, bringing all his experiences together.” His experiences as an activist, a scholar, a teacher, and an advocate for the underserved have shaped him into a person who truly believes in the power of education to transform lives. He urges younger generations to do their own research, particularly when it comes to understanding statistics and societal narratives, pointing to the way COVID-19 statistics were manipulated to fit agendas. Mab’s advice to the younger generation is clear: “Don’t believe everything you hear. Question it, and always do your own research.”
Mab Tema’s life is a testament to resilience, the pursuit of knowledge, and the power of community. After all the struggles and triumphs, Mab still managed to thrive, showing anyone that if you do what you believe is right, you can thrive and succeed.
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