Bridgette has been a long-standing member of our social clubs and a vibrant part of our community for many years. Always warm, friendly, and quick to offer help to others, she was someone who brought joy and support to many around her.
In early 2024, Bridgette suffered a serious fall that left her with a broken leg and led to a series of hospital stays due to complications. It was a very difficult period for her, as not only was she physically unwell, but the abrupt change in her independence and daily routine was emotionally overwhelming. Our team quickly noticed her absence from the clubs and kept in regular contact by phone, checking in to make sure she felt supported and had everything she needed.
Eventually, Bridgette was able to return home, but her mobility was extremely limited. She found herself housebound, unable to attend our TMDF’s social clubs or visit friends, and she was entirely reliant on her daughter for shopping, and carers for her day-to-day needs. The sudden loss of independence took a toll on her mental health, leaving her feeling isolated and low. To help ease this, our Doorstep Buddy, Tish, began visiting Bridgette each week.
These weekly visits made a huge difference. Being able to talk to someone outside of her immediate support circle gave Bridgette a renewed sense of connection and normality. It provided her with space to offload her frustrations, have a laugh, or simply share a cup of tea and a chat, keeping her linked to the community during an otherwise very isolating time.
After several months of recovery, Bridgette was delighted to return to our social clubs. However, it became clear that her injury had left a lasting impact. She shared with us that her doctors expected her to live with chronic pain and mobility issues going forward. Having never experienced any form of disability before, Bridgette felt uncertain and anxious about how to cope and what support might be available.
We discussed the option of applying for a Blue Badge and felt she would be eligible. Our team supported her through the application process, and the bid was successful. Being able to park closer to venues gave her back a sense of autonomy and helped her adapt to her new circumstances more comfortably.
Bridgette continues to attend our clubs regularly. She’s doing well, and although life looks a little different now, she’s grateful to still be able to get out, see friends, and enjoy the things she loves, made easier by the little bit of extra support that’s helped her hold onto her independence.
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The McCarthy-Dixon Foundation
67 Grove Rd
Northampton
NN1 3LJ
Registered Charity Number: 1190255
